I'm looking for a 90s (maybe early 00s) song sang by a woman singer (maybe she was a member of a band?). She has dark shorter hair and wears dark clothes (top and jeans) in the video. The song is quite slow and sad, something between pop and soft/alternative rock and was quite popular. There is a blue, little psychedelic background in the video. And the singer is maybe lesbian (or popular among lesbian), not sure about that. Thanks!