The year is between the 1980's - 1990's. The artist is male. Like the new jack swing era. It's r&b /soul. The artist is asking his girlfriend does she want the other man or does she really want him. It goes, who do you really want him or do you really want me? Do you really want him or do you really want me? How could you did this to me? Two is a couple and then there was me.