I remember a an R&B video from the 90s or early 2000s. It shows the male singer getting dressed in a tux with flashbacks of him and his girlfriend. She is pressuring him it seems to set a date for their wedding but he is reluctant. When he's dressed he goes to the church which is packed, presumably to get married but he walks down the aisle and places a ring box on a casket then exits the church. What is the name of this song? Who sings it?