It is a shorter blond hair man who sings it. I can't remember if he plays an instrument but I think he plays a guitar. It played on MTV before. The man keeps taking this woman back into his life everytime she ends a relationship with another man. This happens over and over again. At the end of the video she is knocking on his door wanting him to take her in again but this time he doesn't. It was a song that played in America.