The band is both Christian and Mainstream. Male singer reminds me of The Afters, I could have sworn it was them. Its soft rock/pop? Its been played on the radio and even in stores like JC Penny.... All I can remember for sure is a loooong "YOU" like this... "Yoouuuuuuuuu, arrrre....." in a somewhat high male pitch. and Im not sure what the other words are, he does have a bit of an accent, not sure what it is. This is a long shot, but I'm dying to find this song!!