Information which I believe is right:
Female singer is like either a Japanese-American or Korean-American. In the music video she had long black hair.
There was a black male model in the music video, which she dance around in a brief clip. It was maybe released around 1990-2012.
Information that might be wrong:
The song was about telling the someone to not let her go or leave her or wanting someone to touch her. Her first name might be 4 letters. <– Might be totally wrong info –>
The female singer looks like the recent popular singer Dami Im.