So it’s an early-mid 2000s pop punk song to the best of my recollection. Set in a blank or nearly blank/white wound stage.
The guy is singing about how the relationship is tearing him up and the girlfriend in the video (pretty brunette) literally beats the bajeezus out of the band, hitting them with the drums and strangling the singer with the mic cord and punching him in the face while he sings. It’s a relatively upbeat and uptempo song despite the visual and the subject matter.
It’s been driving me up a wall for nearly a year now and no amount of googling brings it up. I feel like it was a popular band too but I just can’t recall who. Any help appreciated!