It's by a girl, and in the video she is being neglected by her boyfriend who is sitting around on their couch and playing video games. by the end of the video the girl literally crumples him like paper and throws him into a waste basket. I saw this i think at least 10 years ago but it might have also been early 2010. I saw this on T.V. after a movie ended they showed it instead of the credits and the channel was probably YTV, Teletoon, or Family channel.